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Have You Ever Noticed Your Own Passive Aggressive Behaviors

The reason I want to talk about this is for the main one that people don't realize how passive aggressive they are.  Over the past year Ive noticed Im even passive aggressive and when its done too me I literally loose my marbles because to be completely honest it fucking sucks!  So lets begin with me since Ive brought this up, Ive noticed that if I'm annoyed with someones questions/questioning I will sometimes answer a question with a question this is a passive aggressive behavior.  Im working very hard to create a positive life and in doing so sometimes we all need to change things.  Another one I can't stand is the questioning on text messages without the whole damn story, don't question someone because your upset with them be an adult and say what you mean.  Tell the whole story and not a half truth too or just the half you want the other person to know because you think they won't find out later, the truth will always come out regardless of if you meant for it

Curve Ball of Knowledge America

Hey Folks!   Before I write this Im in now way trying to sway a political response or feedback because though this pertains to the election this isn’t about a political stance. Now thats outta the way I can begin!   I just wanna throw this curve ball out there lets talk about the MR TRUMPS issue with his words.  YES , Its wrong, Yes I agree with a majority of America who say its wrong.  But at one point do we then move on?  Let me re phrase that at what point do WE OWN THAT WE HAVE ALL USED THE SAME WORDS BEFORE.  WE ALL HAVE.  So your friend is acting like a P***Y and you say that outloud oh hey guess what you just did the same thing as MR TRUMP.  Regardless of how you meant it or if it was a male or a female you did it, THINK ABOUT THAT the next time you have something to say.  This man has apologized to the public, stop crucifying him for the same words we all have used and down to the real issues hindering the UNITED STATES which is bigger than words!  

True Love

 So this week specifically on Sunday October the 9th my husband and  I will celebrate being married a year.  The word marriage to most means the same thing in sickness and in health, to love unconditionally ect but for me it takes on a new meaning that it never had before.  What I mean by that is most people myself included like the idea of marriage until the marriage becomes hard. ( since I was married before I can honestly say that I had no business getting married when I did, but the personal growth after was astonishing ) Most people say you shouldn't have to work hard and I disagree for a few reasons you're going to fight, your going to say hateful awful things and your going to have to realize that they're just words. ( this is the gods to honest truth its gonna sting ).   You're going to feel tested sometimes and your going to have to remember to breathe.  You're  going to have to communicate for better or worse and lay it on the line and put your pride aside