NON COMPETE CLAUSE

Recently I have noticed more and more people who feel the need to compete with their peers.  This behavior drives me crazy, on one hand we have a person whose so proud of themselves for accomplishing something big in their lives but the so called peers turn into a ball of negativity for some reason or another.  In other words the negative peers now feel a need to compete with the others to prove themselves. Why do people think like this instead of using that person as a positive example in life?  When did life become about the car you drive, the money you make/the job title, and the relationships you have?  Why cant people understand that if you put fourth just a little bit of effort into anything that it will come back to you in a positive manner?  Why can't life be what is supposed to be about creating a positive environment for yourself and your family, its not about comparison of this person has that and I don't,  its about so much more than the petty day to day mundane bullsh*t.  When you cannot support your peers in a positive way have you ever thought about how they feel afterwards?  Have you ever thought damn they worked really hard and I just took a huge crap on them so I feel great about myself?
Well folks heres your PSA regardless of who the person in friend or foe and you have heard they did something extraordinary with their lives or achieved something for that matter commend them don't sit in your corner with your condescending tone/manner and get mad because they got something you didn't all because of the fact that they maybe put fourth a ton of effort, worked hard and showed up for life.  We may not always agree with things others have done thats perfectly fine but we have to respect it and remember that our life and our decisions deserve a no judgement zone.  No one is entitled more than anyone else so take that myth off the table and remember in order to achieve something the plan may take twist and turns but with hard work comes the best rewards.  So live your passion, create a positive lifestyle and work hard for the things you want.
 Also, let me add this if you have children or even if you don't at this point they learn from their parents, they will follow in their footsteps always, Im  99.9% positive you would never want your child to feel bad for an accomplishment they achieved........ so why do we as ADULTS make other ADULTS feel less?

  Keep it positive in 2016 be extraordinary, build your own rome and let the haters hate alone, as long as you love yourself 100% thats the only thing that matters, love the process of finding your happiness in a balanced healthy lifestyle!

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